"Aww, my poor boo!
You are an awesome boy! You just tend to not be as discriminative as you should when selecting a mate...erm... girl.
You shouldnt pursue EVERYONE, you should carefully examine and scrutinize til you find a girl you really like and who you think is really compatable with you and then SLOWLY (because you're kinda forward) get to know her and let her get to know you... THEN BAM! Spring the trap.
Something else I think ur guilty of is becoming friends and then announcing an attraction. Idk about most girls, but i dont date my friends. You kinda have to do both at the same time. because one before the other = AAAAAHHH!
Oh an we're pretty easy as a species... we like perteh (shineh) thangs. "
- Big Momma on the topic of me using my relationship status as a determinator of my self worth.
Yes, I've been using my relationship status as a determinator of my self worth. It's a horrid spiral I've been in the last 3-4 months, seeing everyone around me pair off and me trying and striking out for various reasons. However, Destiny (topic for a different day) has been keeping me on the straight and narrow. I think I'm basically looking for a serious relationship at this point in life, cause flings aren't really my thing. I've been single for a little over two years.
This reply made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside because it let me know that my big momma cares about me.
You are an awesome boy! You just tend to not be as discriminative as you should when selecting a mate...erm... girl.
You shouldnt pursue EVERYONE, you should carefully examine and scrutinize til you find a girl you really like and who you think is really compatable with you and then SLOWLY (because you're kinda forward) get to know her and let her get to know you... THEN BAM! Spring the trap.
Something else I think ur guilty of is becoming friends and then announcing an attraction. Idk about most girls, but i dont date my friends. You kinda have to do both at the same time. because one before the other = AAAAAHHH!
Oh an we're pretty easy as a species... we like perteh (shineh) thangs. "
- Big Momma on the topic of me using my relationship status as a determinator of my self worth.
Yes, I've been using my relationship status as a determinator of my self worth. It's a horrid spiral I've been in the last 3-4 months, seeing everyone around me pair off and me trying and striking out for various reasons. However, Destiny (topic for a different day) has been keeping me on the straight and narrow. I think I'm basically looking for a serious relationship at this point in life, cause flings aren't really my thing. I've been single for a little over two years.
This reply made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside because it let me know that my big momma cares about me.
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